A lot of platforms, experts, TV shows, articles etc normally advise you on how you should celebrate Valentine’s day.
They give you ideas of simple sweet things you should do to make your partner melt like chocolate on a hot day. It’s supposed to be the perfect day to share your love.
But what if the day went horribly wrong?
What if your surprise turned out to be a disaster and now your relationship is on the verge of collapse? Valentine’s Day does not always go according to plan. It’s an unfortunate, but not uncommon occurrence.
Well, here are ways you can save your relationship from a disastrous Valentine’s Day.
1.Get control of your emotions
You might have been badly embarrassed, disappointed, shamed or even hurt but don’t let emotions cloud your judgment. Take a minute and let emotions wash away.
2. Talk to your partner
After the day, some people don’t want to talk to their partner at all. But you need to. Hear out what they have to say. Tell them how you feel. It will help you in healing and reconciling.
3. Try another date
Your Valentine’s Date went horribly wrong but that’s probably because you wanted so much to happen and you overdid things. Try another date, this time around let it be simpler and with no surprises.
4. Take time off
If you are not feeling like having another date, take some time off then. Stay away from social media and focus on doing creative things. Drive your mind away from the day.
5. Get other forms of Love
You can go visit your family, friends or an orphanage. Share love and it will help you heal faster.
6. Take a look at yourself
Finally, take a look at yourself. Maybe it’s just you.
The day probably wasn’t bad but you expected so much more. You demanded too much and in the process, was left empty. Your partner genuinely tried their best but you didn’t appreciate it. Maybe it’s time to apologize.